Here's something that just popped in mind and has to make it here before I forget. I'm having one of the moments where thoughts come in and out of my head like a sieve with a feedback loop.
Women are always saying they want a nice strong guy who can whether any storm and be a beacon of light. That sort of man that can be their knight in shining armor to either help in times of need or simply companionship otherwise. They also say they like excitement and thrills. The classic bad boy who can ride in on his motorcycle and swipe them off on a weekend adventure to some exotic island. But there is a problem with these two.
Both personality types cannot exist in the same person. The laid back person who is stress free is like that because he is capable he no longer gets overexcited in the face of stress or activities. He has learned to control himself and let things go. On the other hand the bad boy is someone goes on adventures because they seek the constant rush. Moving from stressful situation to excitement is what they perceive life to be about.
Don't get me wrong. A guy who is laid back can still go adventures, but he takes them in stride and simply enjoys them. The excitement junkie might hold down a job and family but he will always make sure there is some underlying issue unresolved. Bottom line is the two personality types are completely incompatible and I really wish woemn would realize this.
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